Mindset Monday is now become a staple here at The Network Dad with today’s topic on having a mentor.
Could it be because of my passion for personal development?
Could it be because there are so many new marketers online ever day that could use a little thoughtful guidance?
Could it be because Mindset Monday has a catchy ring to it?
Yes, yes….and YES! Just wanted to have a bit of fun with you!
Ok if you’re new to my blog you can catch up on the last couple of Mindset Monday videos, The Journey is the Destination and How to Handle Limiting beliefs
Today we’re going to cut right to it. We’re talking about what it means to have a mentor or a coach, take a look…
So Why Have a Mentor?
Here are some benefits of having a mentor or a coach.
Guidance – A mentor should be able to guide you towards your goals. One thing is true that the best way to get from point A to point B is a straight line. What is also true…is that getting to your goals is never a straight line.
Often distractions and life challenges shape our route. A mentor should help keep you on the path. It may not always be easy, but if YOU believe your goals are worth it, then it can happen.
Be your cheerleader – You deserve to have someone in YOUR corner. Someone you can count on for many different things. Being a motivator for people needs to be a simple and fun event for both parties. If you don’t want to be encouraged and supported then don’t hire a coach.
But there’s one key point to be made. A good coach is going to be there for you when you are there for yourself. YOU MUST STEP UP to play the game. Never expect your coach to just do it for you and don’t waste your time thinking that they should.
Hone your strengths and overcome your weaknesses – Everyone has quality stuff they bring to the table. it’s like taking inventory of your assets. Weather it’s personality, a brand, people skills or a list…everyone has something they can build on. A coach see’s this straight away and can harness that quickly.The person being mentored learns to leverage these gifts to their fullest potential and acts accordingly.
The next step is to quickly build upon this foundation. Be willing to take action on things that are not comfortable. Your skill sets are your prize possessions.
Complete with strategy session and plan of attack – It’s war out there and there’s no time to waste! You need someone who can build that road map that’s designed with you in mind and geared towards YOUR GOALS.
Yes there are basic fundamentals especially for online marketing that you need to know. But the rest of the process needs to be built with your gifts and your goals in mind. It needs be something that you can believe in…not just something filled with empty expectations.
With regards to online marketing there are many routes you can take in making a solid income and the learning curve can be quite severe for some. Having a coach or mentor can shave time off that learning curve and straighten that crooked road towards your goals.
Ken Pickard
The Network Dad
P.S. Have you ever had a coach or mentor when it comes to online marketing? Share your favorite story or best “Ah Ha” moments you’ve had from a coaching session.
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Hi Ken,
Yes, even coaches need coaching, so to speak. For example, I have a personal development blog, but I read personal development blogs on a regular basis. I am a life coach now, but I do participate in life coaching masterminds and still learn from other coaches.
I will keep up with your series, Ken
Great idea!
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Sylviane ,
So true…coaches need coaches. My copy writer friend has a group of other copy writers she constantly connects with to bounce client ideas off of. it’s not that she can’t service the client, it’s that she really wants to remain impartial and is always keeping her ear to the ground on copy writing. So I know exactly what you mean.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Ken
I agree with you Ken having that someone to bounce things off of or just run by is so helpful. There is no way we can all know everything that needs to be done in order for us to move forward.
I know that for me, just that short time I spent with you on the phone was so helpful. I asked you one question and your mind went ninety miles an hour. You just had so many great suggestions for me that I would have never thought of.
I believe anyone who works with you will be so blessed. You just have so much knowledge to share.
Love your mindset Monday’s and thanks for putting this message out there. You’re going to get those spots filled up in record time.
~Adrienne
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Adrienne,
Thanks for the great comment! I just added your video to my blog. Thanks again for the testimony! Brain storing and tapping into the creative part comes pretty easy. I’ve always loved the mastermind process. It’s very easy to get int hat place with people who have the same ideas and goals. You’re very easy to connect with! That’s what makes this stuff so much fun.
I’ve been toying with this latest mastermind, coaching idea for several weeks. I feel like I’m a student right now, digging into Rob Fores stuff and plotting out a set of goals for the rest of the year. But i know if I don’t continue to pass this one, I’ll be holding myself back, as well as others who want to grow with me.
Ken
Oh, I love that you added my video to your blog. I hope it will help because it’s the truth. You have so many awesome ideas to share that can help so many people in the areas they need assistance with. Sometimes we just aren’t aware of some of the things we can do so with your help you open new doors for us.
I think you’ll always be a student but the knowledge you have will definitely benefit others. I’m so glad you’ve decided to open this mastermind and coaching up to more people. I wish you the very best with this.
~Adrienne
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Hi Ken,
I enjoyed this Mindset Monday Post! We all need coaching and on an ongoing basis. If we are the tool to help others, we need to have an ongoing place or contact where we can keep ourselves as a tool shinny and clean.
I learned this way back when I thought I was becoming a social worker, but instead, held on to my practice of doing Psychic Counseling. Of course I need someone..for I am a tool, so I use a therapist once a month to make sure I’m OK.
Also, being a “coach” of internet marketers with particular strength on focusing on their “Mindset” (pardon the expression) and also their inner-being, I do have to keep myself up to date and coached myself.
There are so many modalities I like to teach people. The stuff I went through myself in training and also the ongoing stuff I jump into to keep up with the latest and greatest ways to help people overcome fears and help them choose wisely out there.
Mentoring is so important, especially for the newbie! There are so many different things out there, it can get confusing. But people seem to resonate with others and things kinda work out.
All this being said, I have known you since I cam on board years ago. You my dear friend are a great coach in many ways. Not only for the human spirit, but also all the knowledge you have obtained in marketing. You have been a leader in tribes and are always looking for different ways to help those focus.
May I take this as another opportunity to thank you for all that you do.
Dona
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Donna,
Thank you for the wonderful comments! It’s been a blessing to see what you and David have created for yourselves.
I’m glad you like the Monday Mindset videos. Settling into this grove and as you know…video is the best way to go. I know you share the same passions and portray the same desires you have for your students and clients too. It’s your giving spirit that shows how much you care.
Again thank you for the props and shout out. Let me know how I can return the favor!
Ken
Hi Ken
A great message. I believe everyone needs a coach or mastermind group. I know some very wealthy people and I know they all are part of a group. Yes we should also be hanging out with people who raise us up.
I think as many of us now work out of our homes we need some form of accountability.
Love your video as always.
Sue
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Sue,
This is one of my core principals. Some of the best stuff I’ve seen has come from the craziest mastermind sessions. It’s amazing! And yes i agree, we should be hanging around people who raise us up.
Thanks for sharing your comments.
Ken
Hi Ken,
Having a mentor who can motivate you and show the path can lead you to the top.But for me having a mentor to get things work all the time is not a good idea.If somehow i need a mentor i prefer those who just motivates me the rest path i may walk through.
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Aditya,
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. A lot of people can and do learn what they need on their own. They are self driven. But think of all the athletes, they have a coach. Think of all the leaders in just about any company, group or organization. Most have had a mentor at one time or another. The cool thing though is that to each their own. If it works for you then great!
Ken
Hi Ken,i know what you are saying.But all i am saying is a mentor is just for your motivation and he helps in showing the path.Its us who have to walk through the path.I have a mentor to and i am doing what he suggested best for me,but on my own not having his hand in my hand.
Just like you said athletes have their coach but the coach don’t run him with him instead he just shows the path to run and how to run.This is my point i am trying to say.
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Hi, Ken,Excellent point about mentoring in specific areas. I believe everyone needs a mentor or a coach to fast track their success. As you said, one little tip can make a big difference. Mastermind group is another important part of the puzzle for faster success. We go forward by leveraging on others’ skills and expertise. Many successful people become even more successful because they know the benefit of mastermind groups!I appreciate your sharing, Ken. Viola Tam
Hi Ken. I’m big on mentors for whatever you want to do well. No one would expect to seriously learn a skill like playing a musical instrument, learning a language or becoming a CPA without a teacher or mentor…it just makes sense to get expert help..especially when your income is at stake. I have had a variety of mentors and coaches over the years and they have all played important roles in my life and learning.
Thanks for the reminder and for a good post.
hi Ken,
What stuck in my mind while reading your article and listening to your video was a quote from the late John Lennon “Life is what happens to us while we are making other plans.”
Why that quote? Many years ago I used to be long on planning and short on action until I met a man who became a great friend and mentor and taught me how to balance my efforts in a more positive way. He taught me the value of a mentor through his actions and since then I’ve always valued a mentor or mastermind group to share ideas with and keep me on track.
Kelvin
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Having a mentor can really bring out ideas in your brain that you didn’t even know was there. Not only that, it is nice to have someone talk to you that has been there done that. My last mentor was someone I have some “choice” words about, but they taught me how business works and the hard work behind it to succeed. That’s information I will never forget. Nice post Ken!
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Hi Ken,
Actually, I have several mentors! And some of them don’t even know they are my mentors
What I mean is that if you adopt an attitude of humility and lifelong learning, then your path will be practically inundated with mentors.
Being a coach means it truly helps having someone in your corner to cheer you on, and simply hold up the mirror, and be there to change the angle.
Have a great day, and see you later!
Dee
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Hi Ken,
Great topic and one that everybody trying to build an online business needs to consider.
Prior to having a mentor I spent about 2 years going in never ending circles, somewhat like a dog chasing its tail. Sure I was making a little progress but for the work I was putting in it wasn’t enough although i kept going because I saw others doing it successfully.
I knew that I was missing something but for the life of me I couldn’t figure it out so i got myself a mentor. Things then started falling into place and I had a plan to follow, which showed me where i was going wrong.
Since then I was lucky enough to win a spot on Sally Neill’s Learn With Sally coaching and this really was a great prize as Sally showed me other areas where I was applying myself incorrectly.
So it sure does pay to get a mentor
Best of luck with your course Ken.
Barry
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Everyone, no matter how determined and confident, can benefit from having a mentor(s) to provide some guidance, support, and motivation. It’s like taking a class. We just don’t know what we’re missing until we try it. Someone who is experienced in our field, or adept at helping others to achieve their potential can serve as the bridge to get us from dreaming to doing. Thanks for the fantastic post!
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Hi Ken,
Great to connect with you again via the TOP10 challenge. Tribal communities are huge and as you said, a great way to surround ourselves with people who can “rub off on us.” These usually have a more efficient discipline, weekly workflow, etc…. Great point about needing a coach. It is a must not a can if you want to!
I am sure all those getting involved with you in your training will THRIVE!
God less,
Joe
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Well I agree with all your post up to the point when you say you need a mentor for all this. I think that you yourself c be the best mentor for you, and the main thing – you will really care about your success – practically no other mentor would.And yes, from my own experience I agree its easier to study when there;s someone to guide you, but I can also say that often when you do everything yourself it’s a bit slower but far more successive in a long run – the main thing here in never give up!